Research has shown that it takes only 7 seconds to decide if you feel attracted to someone.

 That is literally 2 blinks of your eyes!

No time for friends or family anymore. Blame dopamine, adrenaline, and serotonin the hormones telling you

 " I AM FALLING IN LOVE!”

Friends and family incidentally are not being flooded by these hormones and see the relationship for what it really  is!  Sometimes good and many times not so good

2 other hormones play their part in the word Love. Vasopressin and Oxytocin have their part in the bonding phase.

They are the glue that binds the relationship. Oxytocin, also known as the ‘cuddle hormone can make women lower their defences making them more trusting of their partner during and after intimacy. 

Then comes the comfort zone and one partner healing the other partners pain/fear from the past and chime go the wedding bells. The magic of  hormones can seat you on cloud 9.

The feeling that all of your life problems will leave once you go from being one to two and starting a family.

You must be true to yourself and to do so you must understand yourself and your inner needs before trying to understand your partner. Endless relationships fail because one partner hasn’t a clue what they truly want from life and will happily emotional lean on their partner to give them the strength they seek.

We are wired for relationships it is in our DNA, however so many people looking for that connection continually pick the wrong partner and end up feeling unloved, lonely with low self-worth. That is the emotional baggage a person can end up taking into their new relationships

People will enter your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

Relationships can give you the reason to live and be the very reason why people give up the will to live.  However they teach you  to grow and learn from past mistakes and hurts.

No one person is worth another person losing the will to live

Some people are a positive influence  whilst some only serve to be a problem. The energy planets  have on our  unique characteristics connected with childhood experiences, birth rank, sibling and parent relationships decide how you deal with the ups and downs of relationships

Research suggests that we create an internal working model of our parents that we later adopt as our own sense of self. This affects how we perceive ourselves and any conflict planted early in life can impact future relationships.

Culture & Religious differences have an enormous role in this

Relationships are not about completing a person nor are they about you helping your partner heal from their personal hurts in order that you act out how you want to be treated. Many lessons are learned from relationships helping us see life through the up and many downs

You are just 4 steps away from recognising the most common relationship pitfalls.  Through following our 4 system model you will get a boost in understanding how parenting, birth order, sibling rivalry and astrology are so powerfully connected in understanding relationships and compatibility